Proximity and goals.

What change do you seek in your life? What actions will help you move towards that change? What stops you from taking those actions? Our brain is wired to pay attention to things that are in immediate proximity. It is not wired to ignore the current stimuli and refocus on

Engaging with possibility.

Creating something new. Doing something new. Meeting someone new. Going somewhere new. Trying something new. How can you engage with possibility today?

What advice would you give to your friend...

...if they were going through what you are going through. Empathy is hard. Self-empathy is harder.

Get the next one in.

When you miss a workout, get the next one in. Don't try to make up for the one you missed. That's a trap.

Breaking the block.

Ice is made of the same material as water but it is not water. It does not flow. The difficulty arises when we expect ice to behave like water. We can either break it with force or sit long enough with it for it to melt. But if we do

In the absence of crisis.

Shipping when there is no crisis, no deadline, no hell breaking loose. It's a skill that’s worth learning.

Yin and yang.

The dance of the good and the bad will go on. How can you remember the amateur when you are a pro? How can you remember the pro when you are an amateur?

The smartness trap.

At some point, the only thing left to do is to take action. And in that moment, the moment when action might lead to change, it always feels smarter to wait, to explore the other options, to do anything but what needs to be done. In that moment, taking action

Trust yourself.

It's a skill to choose trusting ourselves over doubting ourselves. It's a skill we can learn through practice. It's a skill that can help in building all other skills.

Can you trust you?

Strategic decision-making depends on making the strategic choice and taking action. It's better to separate the two. Making the strategic choice is possible only when we can think clearly and are not shrouded by emotions and fear. However, while taking action, emotions and fear are expected to show

One bad day.

One bad day doesn't make you not a professional. It's how you respond (or react) to it that decides that.

Making space for slack.

Being a professional doesn't mean being efficient, trying to make the most out of every hour of the day, every day of the week, every week of the year. Rather, these are sure shot signs of being an amateur. Instead, a professional focussed on what needs to be

Starting afresh.

You don't need to wait for a new year, a new month or even a new week. Each day brings with it the gift of a new day. You may not be where you want to be right now. But you can choose to start the day tomorrow

Permission slip.

Excerpt From Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert: You do not need a permission slip from the principal’s office to live a creative life. Or if you do worry that you need a permission slip—THERE, I just gave it to you. I just wrote it on the back of

Effective or efficient?

Do you focus on the change you are seeking to make and on the things you need to ship to make that change? Or on how efficiently you are using the time you have available? The latter does not lead to the former. And we can burn ourselves out trying

Complex emotions.

Sometimes we feel joy, followed by embarrassment, and maybe sadness too. On other days, it's fear, anxiety and guilt getting entangled with each other. Emotions rarely show up alone as we grow up. If we learn to segregate them, we might be able to dance with them. The

Unblocking.

If a water pipe is blocked, you don't keep staring at it and hope it will unblock itself. You would need to do something about it. Maybe you do it yourself or you call a professional. But, there needs to be some movement. The same is true with

The other side.

As creatives and independent professionals, we learn again and again about trusting the process and not worrying about the outcome. Still, the voice of fear keeps us fixated on the outcome. It demands certainty, the certainty that any effort we put will not go waste, the certainty that we are

Action causes change.

Not planning, not discussions, not thoughts or feelings, but action. They may help us in taking action, but without action there's no change. What does action look like in your project? What can help you move forward? What's stopping you from taking action?

If I have to write...

If I "have to" do it, I’d do it this way. If we do not give ourselves a choice for “later”, we might be able to let go of perfectionism, and make do with what we have. When “later” comes into the picture, perfectionism can wreak havoc.

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The bully (inside our heads).

When something goes awry, it goes, “See. This proves it. You are no good.” When something goes well, it goes, “let’s focus on the next thing. that’s in the past” or "that’s by chance" or "they are just being polite". The thing with

Creativity and productivity.

If you want to be productive, put yourself in a familiar environment, one where you have been productive in the past. On the other hand, if you want to be creative, put yourself in a new space, one you are not familiar with, one where new ideas can take birth.

Anxiety or guilt?

Anxiety and fear show up when we show up. Otherwise guilt and regret show up. We can choose.

Interesting problems.

Interesting problems are ambiguous, complex and seem unsolvable, much like how a Rubik's Cube appears to a beginner. But every action we take gives us feedback and helps us understand something we didn't know yet. Sometimes because it worked, but most times because it didn'