The selfish ask.

If your friend were in a similar situation, would you be happy that they asked you for help?

How would it make you feel?

Relationships are built when we are courageous enough to ask for help.

And, of course, show up when it's asked for.

The selfish ask is the one where you don't make the ask and try to figure it out on your own.

Asking for help is a generous act.