The truth in acting as if.
When DiCaprio plays Jordan Belfort in The Wolf of Wall Street, he is not Leonardo, he is Jordan. He is not trying to be Jordan, he is Jordan.
When you are the leader, you are the leader. You are not a follower. You can't think "I am a follower" and be the leader or the other way around.
We are always becoming. When we go to the gym, we become the person who goes to the gym. Our truths align with what we become.
What do you want to become? How can you act as if? What do you need to do for it to be true?